Here’s the twist: This isn’t about counting heads. It’s about realizing that subtraction can be a good thing. You subtract the distractions, the nay-sayers, the people who drain your energy. And you’re left with a core group—seven awesome chicas and eight awesome chicos—who make you feel alive.
And guess what? You don’t need a calculator to figure out who your people are. You already know. The numbers just help you see it. You get to choose who’s in your thirteen, who’s in your twenty, and who you subtract to make room for joy.
A Little Challenge for You
Take a moment. Think of your own crew. Are you a “13” type person with lots of ideas? Or are you a “20” type, always ready to make big plans? Now, ask yourself: What can you subtract today to make your life feel lighter? Maybe it’s a worry, a bad habit, or even just an old pair of shoes you never wear.
19 Razones parar salir con una chica un poco ‘masculina’
Then, ask what you can add. Another friend? A silly hobby? A dare to be a little more like the 7 (thoughtful) or the 8 (adventurous)? This equation works because it’s flexible. It bends with you.
