Is someone giving you an address for a trade or a gift exchange? Ask for a phone number or social media profile with the same city. If they squirm, run. Run like you’re being chased by a swarm of bees.
You can also ask for a photo. "Hey, send me a pic of your mailbox with today’s newspaper." It’s weird, it’s bold, and it works. Most scammers will just disappear when you ask for that.
And whatever you do, never send cash to an unverified address. I know, I sound like your mom. But your mom is right. Cash is untraceable, and so is a dead drop.
The Final Sip of Coffee
Look, verifying a mailing address is 90% common sense and 10% stubbornness. Trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is. Your time and your wallet are precious. Don’t gamble them on a possible P.O. box in the Bermuda Triangle.
So grab your phone, double-check that zip code, and maybe send a postcard to "Barnaby Jones." You've got this. Now, go forth and mail with confidence. And drink your coffee before it gets cold.