Okay, this one is a trap. Never ask this unless you want an honest answer you can’t un-hear. But if you’re brave, you can ask, "Is there anything about my appearance that’s… distracting?" I asked my gym buddy this once, and she said, "Your gym bag smells like a wet yak."
6 Questions to Ask Yourself Every Day – Four O'Clock Faculty
I was crushed for a day. Then I bought a new bag and a deodorant that smells like a pine forest. Now I skip through the locker room feeling like a fresh log. Sometimes the truth stinks—literally—but it’s worth it.
The "What’s My Superpower?" Validation
This is the fun one. Instead of asking for criticism, ask for something you do well. "What’s one thing I do that makes your day easier?" or "What’s my secret talent?" People love answering this because it makes them feel like a talent scout.
My coworker said, "You’re the only person who remembers everyone’s coffee order. That’s Jedi-level stuff." I felt like a wizard with a caffeine spell. That tiny question reminded me that being thoughtful is my superpower. We all need that reminder, especially after a week of feeling like a potato.
