Here’s the real gem: after the book’s release, the King was photographed smiling at a community event, planting a tree—literally planting for the future while the past was being dissected. That’s not denial; that’s direction.
In your own life, when someone brings up something painful or unfair, you can do the same pivot. Acknowledge it briefly (“I hear you”), then immediately talk about what you’re building next. “Interesting. Anyway, did you see that new bakery on Main Street?” Boom—leadership.
This tactic makes life fun because it turns you into a plotter, not a reactor. You become the person steering the conversation, not the one being steamrolled. Plus, it’s wildly entertaining to watch jaws drop when you don’t take the bait.
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The takeaway isn’t about ignoring your feelings—no, feel your feelings! But then, channel them into something productive. King Charles probably felt a twinge of annoyance, then chose to focus on his legacy instead of a feud.
For you, that might mean hitting the gym after a tough talk, or diving into a creative project. The point is motion beats commotion. Every single time.
And let’s be honest—doesn’t it feel great to be the bigger person? Like you’ve unlocked a secret level of maturity that makes daily hassles look tiny. Your future self will high-five you.
Diane Kareen Charles